Okay.. ive got one for you why is so hard to find a guy.. or girl to want to text you daily or want to meet up with you daily because im sorry but isn't it pretty basic of a relationship to yanno put a tiny bit of effort in even if you going abit slow. Don't you hate when a guy is like 'i want to take things slow' i swear that is just code for 'cannot be bothered to make any effort with you' I mean seriously i cannot stand it when a guy wants to take it SLOW but then cops off with a another girl and then does it all in one in about 3 months.. its like come on your not fooling anyone...
I know i probably rant alot about commitment and effort about guys or in some cases girls but if you dont make any effort in your relationship its just a joke. Like this guy im seeing no effort i just feel empty and i feel like its all my fault that he dosent bother because im not worth his time.. but seriously dont be fooled ITS NOT YOU ITS ALL HIM this rule applys for any person, any sex. So don't get caught up in this self destruction of feeling shit because hes not bothering because its not you. Also some people who are reading my blog some may be recovering from a broken heart.. so please read this its abit blunt but its so true of what you need to do.. You can spend minutes, hours, days, weeks or even months over-analysing a situation; trying to put the pieces together, justifying what could've, would've happened- or you could just leave the pieces on the floor and move on. This quote made me realise that okay even tho the moments you had with someone was great! amazing!.. but seriously was it all that? Did you count the moments when you felt depressed and so angry? One way or another you ended up alone feeling shit so something in that relationship went wrong, some where...
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